Sunday, April 28, 2013

Abe's Parents visit & Switzerland



In March we had the privilege of having Abe's parents visit. Unfortunately it was freezing cold and rainy almost the entire time they were here. We enjoyed their company though and our kids milked as much attention as they could get (which was a lot!) Margie would sit with Norah forever in the playroom and do whatever Norah wanted her to do. What a good grandma. I think those are the memories my kids will remember when they are older.

We were able to make it over to Thorn, Netherlands. It is not too far and always a fun place to bring visitors. Of course we were planning on going to the Pancake House, but I didn't realize they opened so late and we ended up just getting some hot cocoa instead.

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We did plan a trip to Switzerland while they were here. Margie's grandpa was born in Flurlingen, Switzerland and she thought it would be fun to visit that town if possible. We rented a little apartment in Hasliberg, which is fairly close to Interlaken. I found it on Homeaway and it was kind of a shot in the dark. I had no idea when the little town would be like. It ended up being a little ski town up in the mountains. The apartment was really nice. I thought the area was really cute and we had a nice view of the Alps from our family room. I'm sure it would have been a lot prettier if it was in the summer!

Our first day there we had nice weather. Cold, but nice! On our way to Interlaken, we stopped at this beautiful lake. It was so pretty!

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Once we got to Interlaken, we ate at a Pizzeria and strolled through the town for a bit.

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Norah can be a little in her own world at times, so this was the best way to make sure she didn't get hit by a car... or lost.
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After exploring the town, we headed up the canyon where we took a cable car up the Alps to get to Murren.

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We made it to the top and were able to explore this little town in the Alps.

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And then of course we had to take the cable car back to the bottom...

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The next day we were unlucky and had horrible weather. It was freezing cold and very windy. Not much fun to be outdoors. Unfortunately we were forced to stay indoors most of the day. The girls didn't seem to mind.

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Norah's Rockstar hair

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These two had a lot of bonding time on their trip...

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We got a little stir crazy and decided to go on a little walk. Adeline led the way and it was hard for Abe and I to keep up with her. She is such an energizer bunny!

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View of the "neighborhood". Our rental is the first one on the right hand side with my car parked in front.

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On our way back to Germany, we took a small detour so we could visit Flurlingen. We stopped in Neuhausen Am Rheinfall, which is a little town across the river from Flurlingen. It is known for their Rhine Falls (hence the name) and we were able to go see them. At the top of the falls, there is a Castle and you have to walk through it in order to access the falls.

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And then there was Flurlingen. This was such a nice, quaint town. Unfortunately, we don't know any information on where Margie's grandpa lived, etc. The local town office gave Margie and Abe a list of numbers to call that could be possible relatives. It would be neat if we could figure out more information at some point. We walked around aimlessly for awhile trying to find something to eat with no avail. The neighborhoods we walked through were so charming and it was fun to look at all the different houses. Eventually we had to get in the car and drive to another nearby town to find something.

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This trip was the last straw for my back. All the sitting in the car for long periods of time killed it. I had back spasms and pain the entire time we were on the trip. Luckily I made it back in one piece before it completely gave out!

Thanks Dale and Margie for the fun visit! Here is to hoping that next time, we have much better weather!

The big 3-0

Back in February, we celebrated my 30th birthday. Birthdays just really aren't the same anymore as a grown up! The weekend before my birthday, Abe and I went out on a date to celebrate. Before we left, Norah was in the bathroom being extremely quiet while I was showering. When I got out, I found this...
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She was pretty proud of herself!

I never anticipated him trying to surprise me with anything, but I started getting suspicious when he was worried about us being late for our reservation. The second clue is that when we drove into the underground parking, he last minute had to switch the direction in where he was going to park. Low and behold, I had some friends waiting on us when we got to the restaurant. It was so fun to be out with my friends and nice of Abe to surprise me.

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On my actual birthday, we didn't do anything too exciting. Abe did make me a yummy breakfast

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and my friend Kelsey did make me the most amazing, massive chocolate cake. So far, the 30's aren't too bad ;) I still feel like I should be 22 years old... other than the little army we have created!

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Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Take Aways

I had a lot of time to think and do nothing while at the hospital. Once I hobbled home last Tuesday, I was sharing all my "take aways" that I had from being in the hospital. It most definitely was one of my darkest weeks, however I did learn a lot.

I learned that...
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I will NEVER take my back for granted. I couldn't even move my toes without straining my back at first. I soon came to realize that I just had to lay there in pain and try NOT to move at all, or else it would be extremely painful.
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I was completely humbled by the entire experience. I had to rely on the nurses for everything. It was really hard for me. I wanted so badly to do things on my own. For the first 3 days, I was completely having to go to the bathroom on a bedpan. This was not an easy task. I had to hold onto the left side of my bed and try to turn myself on my side. The nurse had to carefully help me roll on my back and the bedpan. I couldn't even wipe myself during these 3 days! In the mornings the nurses would come in and strip my clothes off and give me a sponge bath. Horrible. I needed help changing my clothes, etc.
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I miss my kids and husband terribly. Oh how I missed them. I wanted to be at home playing with them, feeding them and putting them to bed. It broke my heart a little to be so near, yet so far away. I am so thankful for Abe. He is such a good little Mr. Mom. He was shuttling the kids around, picking up the house, doing laundry, dishes, grocery shopping, etc. I wished that I could have him to myself at the hospital, but of course it was best for him to be at home with the kids.

I need to always follow through with what I promise. One experience made me think about this a lot. I can't remember which day it was, but I think it was Sunday. I had told my nurse first thing in the morning that I really wanted to take a shower. She promised me that she would come and help me take a shower, but I needed to wait until after breakfast. After breakfast, I asked her again and she told me to wait a couple more hours because she didn't have time. After a couple more hours, she said she still didn't have time. I was very emotional and super frustrated. I just wanted to wash my nasty hair and feel clean. I finally got her to help me on my little wheely chair and in the shower and told her I didn't need her help and pretty much did it on my own while sitting down. It made me think of my cute little girls and how they must feel when I keep telling them to "hold on" or "in a minute" and then don't follow through the first time.

Hospital food in Germany SUCKS. Luckily I had a friend that brought me 2 yummy meals a day for 3 days, another meal from a friend and some treats snuck in. I probably would have starved if not!

Breakfast
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lunch, along with a couple other things
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Dinner, with a brotchen of course....
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Looks delicious, doesn't it?

I have great friends. I was amazed at how much support we had. I had a plethora of visitors while in the hospital. When I got out of the hospital, I had a handful of meals brought over. The first day Abe had to go back to work and I still couldn't do very much, I had friends help out with my kids. My friend Kelsey even came and vacuumed and moped my floors!

I love my savior and am so thankful for the atonement. I never have felt so much pain in my life (of course childbirth would be #2) and it was really lonely and depressing. However, thinking about my savior and knowing that he understood all my pain was really comforting. Of course this was right before Easter, so it was in my thoughts even more.