October 11th marked 2 years of us moving to Germany. It really scares me how fast the time flies by. At first I was a little anxious having to be overseas for THREE years, and now I am frantically trying to plan our last year of vacations and must do/see's so I don't feel like I miss out. I am coming to the realization that no matter how much we get to do and see over the next year, there will always be so much that we don't get to see. As long as we make the best of it, I am ok with that!
It's funny when I think back to our first couple weeks here. It pretty much consisted of exhaustion, crying (on my part), and wondering what in the world had we got ourselves in to. It was weird driving around and thinking, "We live here?" Everything was so foreign to us. The architecture, language, celsius, kilometers, culture, currency, driving... I could go on and on. I felt completely lost and confused. I am very comfortable feeling uncomfortable now, if that makes any sense! I often have to remind myself when I am doing my usual stuff during the week that I am in a really cool place and I am not living a "normal" life right now. I have to say that for the past two years I have been trying to connect with Germans in some way. I realize this is a generalization, but Germans don't want to be connected with for the most part. Our neighbors are all friendly, but they don't care to talk to us or know anything about us. I really wanted to try and learn the language, but I have no time to learn the language. I feel like life with my three kids is crazy all day long and an extra moment I get, I am editing! In my experience, some of the Germans get annoyed that we don't know the language. I totally understand that, but at the same time we are not here for very long and it's so easy not to learn it. The dutch people all speak English perfectly and I am there more often than I am in Germany. I compare this for when I went to Costa Rica for 5 weeks during college. The people are so incredibly friendly and you WANT to connect with them and it makes you try harder to learn the language. I do not feel that at all here!
In a nutshell, we have loved our experiences over here and look forward to many more over the next year. Although we haven't made very many German friends, we have made friends with a really fun Dutch family. I will be so excited to move back to the States and have so many of the small and big luxuries of life back that I really miss. However, I will always cherish our time here!!
Two days before our two year anniversary, we took a day trip to Durbuy, Belgium which is a small medieval town. Abe works with a Belgian guy and he recommended that we go there. We were not disappointed! The drive was about 1 hour 45 minutes each way. I loved when we started getting close because the architecture and the feel of the towns change. Our German towns are neat, but I don't think they compare in charm that these towns have. Durbuy is French speaking and it has more of the french feel (at least what I think of!).
We started of by parking and walking into the little town of Durbuy.
It immediately is so charming!
From this spot, it split off in a couple different directions with the most darling streets I have ever seen.
I couldn't resist taking some pictures of my kids on this street!
At the end of the town, it comes out to this ginormous rock. It looked like they may light it up at night or something, but I thought it was pretty neat.
We decided to start walking back to the car. There is a river that runs right next to the little town center. We crossed over the bridge so we could get a good view of the castle and walk back along the river.
Norah being silly of course!
The girls enjoyed collecting rocks and throwing them off the bridge.